圣经Regarding the matter mentioned in your letter, I say it’s better for men not to approach women.
But to avoid promiscuity, men should each have their own wives, and women should each have their own husbands.
Husbands should treat their wives appropriately, and wives should treat their husbands in the same way.
The wife has no authority to claim her own body, but her husband. The husband does not have the authority to assert his own body, but rather his wife.
Husband and wife shall not suffer from each other, unless they are willing to temporarily separate their rooms, in order to concentrate on prayer. They shall continue to have sexual intercourse in the future, so that Satan may not tempt you while you cannot help it.
I said this to allow you, not to command you.
I want everyone to be like me. But everyone receives the gifts of God, one in this way and the other in that way.
I said to the unmarried and widows, if they continue to be like me.
If you can’t restrain yourself, you can get married. It’s better to get married than to be tempted by desire.
As for those who have already been married, I commanded them, not that I commanded them, but that the Lord commanded them, saying, Wives shall not leave their husbands.
If you leave, you cannot remarry. Or still reconcile with her husband. Husbands must not abandon their wives.
I say to the others, it is not the Lord who says, If a brother has an unbelieving wife, and the wife is willing to live with him, he shall not abandon his wife.
If a wife has an untrustworthy husband and he is willing to live with her, she should not abandon him.
Because of an unbelieving husband, it becomes holy because of his wife. And the wife who did not believe became holy because of her husband. Otherwise, your children will be unclean. But now they are holy.
If the person who doesn’t believe is going to leave, let him leave. Whether it is a brother or a sisters, there is no need to be bound by such things. God called us for peace.
How do you, as a wife, know that you cannot save your husband? How do you, as a husband, know that you cannot save your wife?
But walk according to what the Lord has given to everyone and what God has called to everyone. I command all churches to do so.
Do not abolish circumcision if someone has already been called upon to do so. Do not circumcise anyone who is called without circumcision.
Being circumcised is nothing, and not being circumcised is nothing. Just keep the commandments of God.
When each person is called, they must still hold onto their identity.
Are you summoned as a slave? Don’t worry about it. If freedom is possible, then it is better to seek freedom.
For those who are called to the Lord as servants are the ones released by the Lord. He who is called as a free person is a servant of Christ.
You were bought at a high price. Don’t be a servant of others.
Brothers, what is your identity when each of you is called? Keep this identity before God.
As for those who are childlike, I have no command from the Lord, but since I have received mercy from the Lord and can be a faithful person, I will tell you my own opinions.
Due to the current difficulties, in my opinion, it is better for people to stay calm and peaceful.
If you have a wife lingering around, don’t ask to leave. If you don’t have a wife to cling to, don’t ask for her.
If you marry, it is not a crime. If a virgin marries, it is not a crime. However, such human flesh will suffer. I am willing for you to avoid this suffering.
Brothers, I say to you, the time has decreased. From now on, those who have wives should be like those without wives.
Those who mourn should act as if they don’t mourn. Happy, be like unhappy. Purchase as if you have no income.
Those who use worldly things should act as if they don’t use worldly things. Because the world is about to pass.
I hope you have no worries. Those who have not married are concerned about the Lord’s affairs and want to bring joy to the Lord.
He who marries a wife worries about things in the world and wants to make his wife happy.
Women and virgins also have differences. Those who have not been married are concerned about the Lord’s affairs and want to have a holy body and soul. Married people are worried about things in the world and want to make their husbands happy.
I say this for your benefit. Not to cage you, but to do what is appropriate for you, so that you may serve the Lord diligently without any distractions.
If someone thinks it’s not appropriate for them to treat their daughter, and their daughter has passed the age and needs to handle things properly, they can do it as they please, and it’s not considered guilty. Let the two get married.
If a person’s heart is firm, there is no last resort, and they are free to make their own decisions, and their heart decides to keep their daughter unmarried, it is also good to do so.
It seems that it is good to ask one’s daughter to get married. It would be even better not to ask her to get married.
When the husband is alive, the wife is restrained. If the husband dies, the wife is free to remarry at will. Just to marry someone who is within the Lord.
However, in my opinion, it would be more fortunate to keep one’s guard. I also want to be inspired by God.
